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Why so many people don’t heal


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Hey, I used to wonder as a young boy why so many people including myself would treat people who have hurt me in a way better than I would treat those that would respect me and try helping me become better.

I liken this unto a person being male/female that would complain about the relationship that they were in being abusive, toxic, not being a ideal situation. Due to the fact that the person that he/she is a burden. Stating that they will leave them because they know their worth and value but when everything has subsided itself that person or persons complaining would return back to the very same situation that he/she was complaining about being toxic. –

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Well, why is that??

People are taught that they can’t rise above their environment. People are raised in this society to believe that they are a product of their environment and their is nothing that they can do to change it. It is just fear that is planted deep in the subconscious minds of people.

For example, when I was in school I used to hear teachers say that if you are the product of a broken home. Being that your parents are divorce than the likely that you, yourself will have a failed marriage was something like 85% to 90% likely to happen.

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For example if you are the product of a parent dealing with substance abuse you yourself will grow up and deal with substance abuse issues as well.

I say all of this to say that people not only lack knowledge but they lack the understanding and awareness to know that the conditions a environment is plagued with is the result of the actions of those living in it.

People are taught to fear, worry and the principles of it’s better not to know something than it is to know. Necessarily people need to be educated on what they are fearing and how to combat that fear with a strategy to overcome it.

It’s to my understanding that people go back to the same environment seeking quote on quote healing is due to the lack of feeling devalued. They don’t have any self worth, no value. When you teach people to fear their environment they become dependent on a thing that can not exist without a group of individuals making up that small of larger population.

The way I see it an environment is kin to a church building. A church is just a building with words on it advertising the name of a particular religion that the people adhere to. But how can the building be utilized for the reasons that it was created for? The people coming together fulfilling their obligations to those religious practices and idiologies that they adhere to. Then the building will become true in nature, but first the people must manifest true in their nature.

Time and time again people seek refuge in the same environment that they were originally hurt in is due to not just being taught their value and worth. But some of the blame had to be placed on that person as well. Unless you are a defenseless child. You can’t be held captive if you yourself don’t agree to the captivity.

What do I mean by that? A lot of times people go back to the same environment to heal is because they love it. They have become convinced that the very same environment that have hurt them loves them. They claim that it has been there for them when no one else has. It has nurtured them and raised them. They will always be and forever loyal.

Kind of reminds me of a gang boy standing his ass on the corner will fully and proudly to die for a block that didn’t raise him nor love him. But it has actually raised him, groomed him for his destruction.

All this shows me is that people hurt is so deep rooted that they have become numb to the idea that they are prostitute and the territory that they originate from is the pimp. Some people not going to like that I said that oh well. It’s the truth. If you understand the concept a pimp is a master over his prostitutes. They are his possession. His property. He has dominion over them. Many of our environments had the same influence over us as a pimp does over his. We get dispatched out to many parts of the world and just act out how we were raised and taught to be. Not really having a sense of awareness. Decernment that most of the none sense that we were subjected to can get us killed or landed in jail. Most of the stuff that we were taught in our environment is deception. It’s false. It needs for us to believe it so we can fulfill a purpose or a plan that it has for us. And the plan and purposes is just to pull us further and further away from the most high. This is just so we can’t use everything that the most high had equipped us with. To keep us in the dark. Our environment act as a handler of ours. And I say handler because that’s where most of us was programmed ever since a youth.

However we don’t need a environment filled with Babylonian luciferian liberal teachings to mold us. Where are the parents and the elders that will reach out and train up a child in the way that he shall go so that when he gets older he will not depart from it. That’s what we need. It’s a damn shame that we run back to these environments seeking healing and refuge when the most high let’s you know that he is your refuge. You can come to him for his yoke is easy. These toxic ass environments have replaced the order and authority that we are all desperately lacking in our life.

Stop running to a place seeking to be restored. If you got hurt there once whose to say that you won’t get hurt there again. There’s no good that will come from an environment that sole purpose is to not be apart of the solution but the fucking problem.

You’re better than that, you got the power to change and transcend all the hurt, pain, deception and foolishness. Get your ass up and get it done.

But anyway y’all stay blessed

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Reblog: Inspiration quotes


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Aye there is a reason for every season that you have in the stages of your life. Note this that it is very important that you let go of past hurts and pains, and move on and get over yourself. You could be hindering the process if elevation that God is doing for your life. If you just let go of you and grab hold onto him. You will find out that what God has for you is greater than what you have for you and whatever has happened to you.

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With God There’s Are No Limits


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In life we have all heard the saying “the sky is the limit.” Well if that’s the measuring stick for success, peace, love, happiness and prosperity. I don’t want it then. We should have the courage to push pass the limits that was placed on us and go after what society views as inevitable, but really is incredible. That’s God.

Remember, “whatever the mind believes, the body will achieve”

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The Mirroring Beliefs Of Our Reality


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You know my WordPress family I can remember as a young boy sitting at the dining table listening to both my father and mother talk. They would say that “people are their own worse enemy.”

I never really understood what they meant by this. I would hear them say profound deep revelatory things that would silence a room. I seldomly would ask for them to clarify. It wasn’t until I moved out and was in college that I realized that what they said was true. Many times we blame others for our downfalls, short comings and missed opportunities. Many times we play the victim. We tell ourselves that if things around us would fall into it’s proper place we would have a easier way of living. We sit back and point the finger believing that this is the works of others. Only to realize that this was not by the hands of others. It was never others that was standing in our path.

It hurts doesn’t it?

Life has a funny way of showing you what you see verses what you really are.

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Don’t stand in your way. You deserve more. You are better than that. You see yourself as royalty but you’re living the life of a peasant. Remember dream, believe and achieve. You can’t just see yourself as royalty, you have to mentally be royalty first.

Something to think about??

 

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Discouraged No More


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Discouragement (n)

  • the act of making something less likely to happen or of making people less likely to do something
  • : a feeling of having lost hope or confidence
  • : something (such as a failure or difficultythat discourages someone

Everyday something is happening to us that we can or can’t prevent. And you know it that does suck. When certain situations are in your control and it just slips through your fingers. Man another missed opportunity. Or when certain situations arise that go undetected, situations never showed up on the raider. It’s in stealth mode. These situations come in like a flood and catch you off guard and just wipe you out. Man, that hurts because it shook up your world and left you to die. You could feel how cold it was. In its eyes you see no care, no grace, no compassion, no mercy.

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You were not prepared for a category 7 situation. You are left not knowing what to think, what to make of this and what to do with the remains of this catastrophe.

In the words of Hustle Man, “you gotta pick up the pieces.”

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Don’t sit back and allow what has happened to you weigh you down. Don’t walk around blaming yourself for situations that were in our out of your control. Keep going. Don’t sit back and relive the same tragedy over and over again, because it won’t solve a thing. All of these things that you are constantly holding onto is a form of pity. Avoid it at all cost because pity……….. well it’s a one shot kill to your courage leaving you wasted and your situation remaining the same, never changing.

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Change your mentality and you will change your reality. Don’t think and confess with your lips that your life is over. Don’t make peace with your situation. Don’t lay out new covers, place pillowcases on pillows, and lay out bedsheets. This is not a sleep over. Give your situations the hotel treatment, “checkout is at 7pm. All calls end, turn in your keys and key cards, and any damage to the room will be added to your bill. Have a nice day and please fill out a survey through our website leaving a friendly comment about our services.” But get into the habit of waving your hands to your situations telling them “bye and don’t come back now.” 

Stop throwing yourself a pity party. Yes it happened. Yes it brought you alot of pain and misery. Yes it caught you off guard. But by you holding onto the memories of it, it’s only going to further injury to your life. Allow yourself to heal and let it go. You deserve a new beginning. Lighten the load, let that baggage go.  I liken this unto going to the grocery store buying at maximum 15 bags worth of groceries. Let’s say that you have a friend there with you. I would hope that you are not being a muscle man/women but you realizing that you can’t carry all of this home. So instead you lighten the load and hand about 6 to 7 bags to your friend. This makes walking home easier, bareable. Instead of you walking down the street struggling.

Look situations happen it’s just apart of life. There is no way to escape it. However, there is a way to deal with it. Yes there is a way to deal with it………

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Matthew 11:28-30

Hunger for knowledge, thirst for understanding

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Fill-up The Pages


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We all have stories. We all have beginnings, middles and a end. Some people stories start off good then end bad. While others start off bad then end good. It does not matter what happened way back when. All that matters is what’s going to happen moving forward. We can not undo what has been done, but we can do what’s never been done.

Going forward how will you fill up the rest of your pages?

 

Hunger for knowledge, thirst for understanding

 

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