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Repeated Lessons


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I used to sit in church as a child and wonder why are we hearing the same message over and over again being taught in different ways? That stuff used to annoy me. I felt like man these preachers need to get on the Bible game a little bit better. I mean there are different stories in the Bible. way more scriptures than the usual ones that they like to speak on. Heck turn the TV to TBN and copy some of these televangelist sermons. I won’t be mad just stop talking about the same thing over and over again. I used to ask what is it that we are not doing? What is it that we are not understanding? What’s is it that we are not getting? Now that I’m older I get it now. We haven’t learned our lesson. We keep going back and subjecting ourselves to the things of old because we haven’t let go So we can free up a hand to reach out and grab the things that are new. So when we get ready to listen to what is being taught then we will see a change in the message and that is solely based on a change taking place in us.

So peace

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Get off your do nothing and do something


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It’s about the time and effort that you put into something. Not the probability of whether or not something will happen for you.

-Fisherofmen-

You see people live their life based on probability, which is luck. They based their life on wishful thinking, hope, wonderment. We live in a time where people don’t want to work for want they want anymore. They believe that everything should already be finished by time they receive what it is that they want. All I have to say to that is. If you’re waiting on a already finished product. Keep waiting. Because just the thought of you not believing that you have to put work in for anything that you want is insane and a insult to those of us that do bust our ass for any and everything that we desire and some.

For example, I have a friend and he in my opinion is a hopeless romantic. He always is going out and talking to these girls and making connections. He gets these girl and date them and falls in love with them real quick. I say about a three to six month window I will receive a call or be hanging out with him and he will tell me how toxic they are. Everytime he gets with one of these young ladies their back story is that they are nursing students or have a law degree and work for a law firm. They are going to school to become a doctor. They sound like they have their stuff together. They are in organizations clubs, sororities, honors programs, internships, etc. But later own they crack and fold under pressure. Out the clear blue they don’t know what they want to do. Insecurities out the ass. They are judging him making him feel bad for their shirt comings and what all they have been through. Hahaa. I think it’s funny sometimes. He calls me or we hang out and he’s asking me what should he do. Because they are stopping him from focusing on his business that he has on the side. He feels like he can’t focus 100% of his time, energy and effort on what he’s trying to accomplish.

Now fellas and ladies when you hear a man blame a women for his short comings. What is your reaction?

Cuz I know what my reaction is.

Now we have these talks and he tells me that he does not like when a women blames a guy for what she’s going through and flips the conversation around on a man like if his fault and be expecting a apology. I laugh more in my head because hey a women don’t like being wrong. When their right they are right. When their wrong their still right. According to them. He doesn’t like the whole thing that some of the women that he mess with is dealing with issues that he gets to stick his neck out for them but he keeps getting his neck trampled on. I just tell him that you’re not going to find the perfect girl. All of them have their issues and insecurities. It’s just some of them are a little more stable minded than others. But they still crazy as hell. As a man we love y’all, with your crazy ass. But we love you still. It’s take two to tango.

When I tell him this information he says that he doesn’t have time for all of that. He ain’t got time to spend on his partner. Helping her get to a place in her life that he believes that she should already be at. Now I like that he says this because he is not wrong for feeling this way. Hey, if he don’t want to spend time building with a person that is alright. There is nothing wrong with him feeling this way. But my dude stop trying to make connections with these girls then. Because what do you expect out if the relationship with another human. Hahaa, he must expect a women to already come built.

See and this is what I mean by luck. People expecting the job to already be complete before showing up to work mentality. He’s not going to find a put together women unless him his self is put together. You can’t expect someone to not be drama filled and toxic when you yourself probably are housing the same garbage within. I wonder is he realizing that he’s constantly attracting women that are just like him.

I don’t know the term for this if someone know the term for what I am about to describe please let a brotha know. People are backwards. We love going into other people domain that’s more dirty then ours and start complaining because the filth is uncomfortable and unbearable. But when it comes to our garbage we are either hiding it or calling a blessing from above. We got to stop that. If we want change then you change first and then surround yourself around change that will appreciate over time not depreciation in value.

Personally I don’t think that he should be in a relationship because I can detect that he just want these girls to come already prepared so he don’t have to deal with them but they deal with him. But he’ll learn. He doesn’t want to listen as of now but soon he will. I hope that is not to late. But I’m using his story as a back drop to say that you can’t expect life to be handed to you in a silver platter. You have to work. Even though the heavenly father brought his Hebrew Israelites into the land of the Canaanites. Still the Israelites had to still work. They had to show their allegiance with he most high. They may not built everything in the land but they still had to go through a weeding process to even get there and show that they deserve it. You can’t go through life doing less and expecting more. It doesn’t work that way. Faith without works is dead. You gotta go for whatever it is that you desire. You can’t allow yourself to slip into a lazy mind set.

And another thing you can’t keep blaming people for your short comings. If you are a man there should be no excuse as of why you are allowing a women to run your life. I don’t care what these feminist say. It’s bull at the end of the day. The reason why the women is running your life and dictating certain successes that are manifesting into failures before your very eyes is because you have your priorities backwards. A women. Is beautiful and a joy to have when she is in her right mind that is. But she should never be number one on your list. Most of these relationships are a distraction. I see alot of you boys thinking that the key to success is getting a women that will ride or die with them and then they will accumulate their success. Good luck with that buddy. If you find you a mature P.Y.T then God bless you. But lets be real a man should be focus on the most high number 1. Because he orders a man’s steps. Not a women. Because when shit hits the fan. We will be asking God why. Not our women. They will be looking toward us to have a game plan to get out of this rut that we are in.

But anyway stop sitting back waiting for God to open up the sky and pour out something that you didn’t grind and work hard for. Because it ain’t happenin captain. The amount of effort and work that you put into something is what you will get back from it.

So peace

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Positivity Don’t Cost A Thing


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With so much negative shit in this world nowadays. People need to spread more of that happiness, joy and positive energy. Life is about serving the most high first of all and then making sure that you and your loved ones are taking care of and happy. Life is too short for this negative crap. Life is very fickle. You can be here today and gone tonight. People should make the most if their time by sharing and enjoying the people that are in their life. Don’t walk around with a frown on your face smile. You’re wasting precious energy. It takes more muscles to frown then to smile. I don’t mean enjoy your life or the people around you by drinking and doing drugs. No that’s not joy. That’s a first class ticket to the grave. I mean sit back appreciate the ones around you. Thank them for all that they have contributed to helping get to where you are today. Stop worrying about you. The most high got you. Bless those around you that lack the essentials for their life. I can’t tell you enough but I am at my happiest when I give of myself and bless those that are in need. I understand that my gifts, talents and abilities are not given to me so I can serve myself, glorify myself. You know be stingy and keep it all to me. No my gifts, talents and abilities was given to me so I can serve others. They were given to me so I can be fully equipped so I can take care of the job that the most high positioned me to handle. (Shameless plug thus fisherofmen was born) Through this work I am serving and worshipping the father. But also I am spreading that peace and Positivity that will encourage and place a smile on those individuals faces that are struggling. It lets them know that just hold on brighter days are coming.

Yo spread that Positivity. Just like the gospel song says I pray for you, you pray for me. I love you I need you to survive. I won’t harm you with words from my mouth. I love you. I need you to survive. Man that’s it and that’s all. Is anybody even important anymore? Do anybody even matter to anybody anymore? Do anybody care if their fellow man survives?

Remember there’s more than one way to kill a man. You have your usual. Fist, knife and gun. Then you have your tongue and in it lies both life and death. You won’t kill a man physically but his physical body will be paralyzed because you killed him mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

So peace

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Encouraging


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I don’t know why people are so scared to tell what they have been through or what they are current going through. I know I get it the situations that one could possibly be facing right now sucks. It’s not going the way that you hoped. But what you are currently facing right now and what you have and will come out of is just a testament of your strength and will. These are just battle scars. All they show is that the devil threw everything that he had toward your way and still failed. You’re still here and still standing. That in itself is a testimony and a testament of who you are and what’s really down on the inside of you.

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Reblog: The Nature of Discouragement


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Reblog: first seen on https://stopandpraytv.wordpress.com/2019/08/13/the-nature-of-discouragement/
Beware of keeping discouragement around for too long. Try to learn how to get over, conquer and rise above what has shaken your courage and made you want to continue moving forward.

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Psalm 16:7-11

Discouragement is a powerful, destructive force. Before we can understand how to rid our life of this common temptation, we must recognize its harmful nature.

Understand that discouragement…

Is something we choose. While it’s a natural response to difficult circumstances, we have the power to choose a different response. No one else is responsible for our discouragement.

Is universal. At times, everybody will face periods of disappointment and discouragement because we live in a flawed world filled with flawed people.

Can recur. Sometimes we think we’ve settled an issue, which later resurfaces when we least expect it. Or we may have old emotional wounds triggered by something a person says or does.

Can be temporary or lifelong. Refusing to face discouragement head-on can open the door for it to influence our decisions, actions, and relationships as long as we live.

Is conquerable. With the Father’s help, we can…

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Reblog:CONFESSIONS OF A PEOPLE PLEASER


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SARAH McPHERSON

I’m a very social person. I love people and I love making others happy. Sometimes, however, I place making people happy above my own needs, mental health and priorities – this is when it gets dangerous.

The deepest pain I ever felt was denying my own feelings to make everyone else comfortable.

People pleasing is a toxic, addicting habit that is difficult to overcome. The reality of it is, pleasing people still doesn’t please them. We can bend over backward and sacrifice everything to others and still, it won’t be enough. So why is it so easy to become obsessed with pleasing people, when it’s actually impossible and damaging to our mental health and overall well-being?

I can’t speak for everyone, but I know the roots of my people pleasing tendencies come from a need to feel loved and appreciated. In my mind, if I can please and make others…

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Life’s disability


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One of life’s disability is having a bad attitude. It holds us back from going forward and experiencing the wonders of life. A bad attitude is due to having a bad mentality. When your constantly seeing things in a negative way it can affect your outlook, peace and happiness. Don’t forget having a bad attitude is like extra baggage. It just weighs slows you down. You can’t move freely like how you want because of it.

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Reblog: Both: strong and weak


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Reblog: first seen https://didisvgp.wordpress.com/2019/08/11/both-strong-and-weak/
Hey definitely agree with this I remember when I would do job interviews my bosses would ask what is your strength and weakness. Everytime I got to the question of what is your weakness I would say my strength is also my weakness. My strength is that I observe well and I have a meek demeanor about me. While people like that I am observant they also see this as a sign of weakness because being a introverted person and observant but having a meek spirit people definitely feel as if they can manipulate you and pull a fast one on you. They take meekness for being dumb, timid, not leader material and a push over. But anyway great post I agree with this. Sometimes those things that are out greatest strength can be our weakness as well.

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Where our greatest strengths are
There are also our greatest weaknesses

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