Reblog: first seen on https://meandmybelle.com/2019/08/17/breaking-out-of-your-comfort-zone-2/
When breaking out of your comfort zone you shouldn’t be worried about is this new thing going to make me feel comfortable. You need to concern yourself with becoming confident in that which you are experiencing. We focus more on becoming relax and comfortable to much. That takes away from ability to adapt and continuously grow in life. Life is about growing, learning, gaining knowledge and understanding of what is essential to our life. Then moving onto the next and gaining a greater insight. But we can’t take those steps that we need if everyone we find ourself holding up our process by gaining access to a new level and then becoming comfortable and not wanting to move because we feel scared about not knowing the unknown of a particular step that we need to take in our toward growth, freedom, prosperity, life, liberty, happiness, joy, love and etc. So with that being said stop concerning yourself with comfortability and concerns yourself with gaining confidence.
So peace

Me and My Belle



Fear is essential to growth but all too often it’s easier to stay within your comfort zone. By forcing yourself to break out of your comfort zone and try new things it helps to build your confidence, learn new things and enjoy new life experiences. After all, if you’re not moving forwards you’re standing still whilst others go past you. 

Here are a few ideas, some big some small, on how to break out of your comfort zone or fight your fears! 


  1. Take a new way home from work
  2. Approach someone who intimidates you and compliment them
  3. Go without makeup for a day
  4. Go to lunch by yourself
  5. Have a difficult conversation face to face instead of email/text/phone
  6. Try a new coffee place in town or go somewhere new every time you go out to eat
  7. Take a new fitness class you’ve always…

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Wassup world. I am Keyshaun Jamel Collins and what can I say about myself. First thing is that I never thought that I would be sharing my life, thoughts, experiences, ideas, and dreams aka my business with the world. I’m simply an introverted guy who views the world differently but prefers to keep to myself. I graduated from college nine months ago with my Bachelors of Science degree in psychology. That’s a big accomplishment for me. Yet, that’s not about me. I am a Chicago native born and raised to a black dad and mom who are still married till this day. That don’t describe me. I got a Puerto Rican and Mexican fiancée; my guy friends I had to break free from them because they were jealous. Couldn’t understand how I had the tools to get that one girl, while they stepped up to the plate swung and missed. That’s not about me. Went outside day after day practicing on what started as a dream in hopes of one day becoming a reality. I did not have the mental strength to let this curricular activity go, so I could realize that this was meant to be metaphor to teach me life and prepare me for my true gift. Now that’s me. I am a firm believer in to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48). My goal is to give back, it is very easy to receive so much in life, but the real reward is to give back that knowledge so you can help the next fellow man under you struggling in whatever his/her situation may be. Through this website I have an opportunity to inspire, encourage and motivate. Paint a picture with my words while telling a story about my struggles, hard aches and pains; also the down falls and faults that I bare witness to everyday while I interact with numerous people everyday. How am I able to achieve this, simple I know myself. I know my self worth as a man because I envision it, claim it, speak it and walk in my authority confidently because I understand it. Like my dad and mom always say “If you don’t stand for something than you’ll fall for anything. Now that’s me.


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