The honoring of a father for oneday

According to the world today is father’s day. We all should know by now what this holiday is really in reference to. If you don’t know that’s okay. It’s in reference to the father god of ancient Babylonian principles. However some of you may not have the fortune to say that you have grown up with a father who is present in the household. Hopefully the most high has blessed you with a male figure in your family that can assist you in your personal development as a father would to his young. With that being said a father should not be honored just for one day. A father should be honored and respected everyday out of the year. No, I don’t mean throw a celebration but I do mean the patriarch should be respected and listened to. If he is in his right mind and adhering to what the most high has created for him to be. The man over the household leads his family, protect his family, provides for his family. The man is that sturdy foundation. Without it things would just fall and crumble.

A man does not need to be told thank you, I appreciate you. Given cards, flowers, candy or any of that stuff as a reward to keep doing what he was created to be and do. A man’s reward is seeing his wife and children happy, taken care of and secure. A man’s reward is knowing that his house is in order, under control and he possess stability. Don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with a gift, saying thank you or I appreciate you as a means of acknowledging the man’s sacrifice. The love and appreciation that you want to give should not be solely dependent upon a day on the calendar. A man, well he doesn’t care about all of that. His mind is not pondering about father’s day. His mind is on maximizing the most out of what the most high has given him so he can continue to take care of his own. He does not want major emphasis to be placed on this day. He understsands that this one day out of the year does not solidify who he is and what he does everyday.

Wassup world. I am Keyshaun Jamel Collins and what can I say about myself. First thing is that I never thought that I would be sharing my life, thoughts, experiences, ideas, and dreams aka my business with the world. I’m simply an introverted guy who views the world differently but prefers to keep to myself. I graduated from college nine months ago with my Bachelors of Science degree in psychology. That’s a big accomplishment for me. Yet, that’s not about me. I am a Chicago native born and raised to a black dad and mom who are still married till this day. That don’t describe me. I got a Puerto Rican and Mexican fiancée; my guy friends I had to break free from them because they were jealous. Couldn’t understand how I had the tools to get that one girl, while they stepped up to the plate swung and missed. That’s not about me. Went outside day after day practicing on what started as a dream in hopes of one day becoming a reality. I did not have the mental strength to let this curricular activity go, so I could realize that this was meant to be metaphor to teach me life and prepare me for my true gift. Now that’s me. I am a firm believer in to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48). My goal is to give back, it is very easy to receive so much in life, but the real reward is to give back that knowledge so you can help the next fellow man under you struggling in whatever his/her situation may be. Through this website I have an opportunity to inspire, encourage and motivate. Paint a picture with my words while telling a story about my struggles, hard aches and pains; also the down falls and faults that I bare witness to everyday while I interact with numerous people everyday. How am I able to achieve this, simple I know myself. I know my self worth as a man because I envision it, claim it, speak it and walk in my authority confidently because I understand it. Like my dad and mom always say “If you don’t stand for something than you’ll fall for anything. Now that’s me.

3 comments on “The honoring of a father for oneday

  1. Lovely post,thanks a lot for sharing.

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