Hey, we all know those negative people in our lives that when you talk to them they always have something negative to say. Their pointof view is toxic. Their conversation of others is toxic but they never seem to mention anything negative about themselves. I guess that they don’t have to. You can get a pretty good understanding of who they are, what they are dealing with mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically just by what they say out their mouth. As for you there is nothing wrong with using great prudents in your daily interaction with negative people. Sometimes you have to put certain people on time restrictions. What do I mean by this? If you k ow that you’re talking to this negative person and everytime the conversation goes more than two hours long the conversation will take a turn for the worse. The conversation will go in a direction that is not conducive for either one of you. Then learn and know how to end it and say your good-byes. Sometimes it’s good to know how to redirect the conversation in a different but most people that have fruits of negativity flowing out of the fruits of their lips will and can drain you if you say longer around them then you should. And hey, most of these people probably don’t know that they are draining the people that they talk to on a daily bases. They don’t know and some probably do but don’t care. So it’s your responsibility to evaluate your life and understand what you want to surround yourself with. Because that toxic conversation places things in your spirit. What you hear on a regular can rub off on you and affect you if your not careful. So it’s is important to use prudents when dealing with hell, anybody, even yourself if you k ow that you have a negative spirit about you. Lastly, I get that some negative people are cool to hang around. It’s just when they open their mouth, you kind of say to yourself “now why would you do that. Why would you mess up a good moment between use?” So try and talk to them to let them know that everyone they talk they have something negative to say. And see how they respond. If you’re dealing with a person who does not mind being corrected and they will do their best to change. Then hey, God bless you. That’s a person that probably needed a friend to encourage growth within them. If you find out that your talking to a person that doesn’t not want to be corrected then hey you found out that their bs is now your bs. But you should never not be afraid to voice and realize that you are a positive person who does not want to surround themselves around negativity. Sometimes you gotta cut people off and let them know where you stand. If you don’t man you’ll be sitting back here trying to figure out how and why you allowed this to further continue on.
Negative behavior can be quite a downer. Once upon a time, I had a colleague with daily adverse energy. In our discussions she would never cease to complain about everything she could think about–job, family, friends, health. She also was highly cynical of others, often doubting and severely judging their intentions. To say the least, to talk to her was not an enjoyable experience.
I felt totally drained the first time we had a conference. Even if we were speaking for only 30 minutes, after our discussion I hardly had any power remaining. It felt like someone literally sucked my life away and it took me a few hours to wear off the impacts. The next few times we talked about the same thing. I soon found out that I had to develop an action plan to tackle this type of adverse energy. After all, in my life she wasn’t…
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