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Why so many people don’t heal

Hey, I used to wonder as a young boy why so many people including myself would treat people who have hurt me in a way better than I would treat those that would respect me and try helping me become better.

I liken this unto a person being male/female that would complain about the relationship that they were in being abusive, toxic, not being a ideal situation. Due to the fact that the person that he/she is a burden. Stating that they will leave them because they know their worth and value but when everything has subsided itself that person or persons complaining would return back to the very same situation that he/she was complaining about being toxic. –

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Well, why is that??

People are taught that they can’t rise above their environment. People are raised in this society to believe that they are a product of their environment and their is nothing that they can do to change it. It is just fear that is planted deep in the subconscious minds of people.

For example, when I was in school I used to hear teachers say that if you are the product of a broken home. Being that your parents are divorce than the likely that you, yourself will have a failed marriage was something like 85% to 90% likely to happen.

Or

For example if you are the product of a parent dealing with substance abuse you yourself will grow up and deal with substance abuse issues as well.

I say all of this to say that people not only lack knowledge but they lack the understanding and awareness to know that the conditions a environment is plagued with is the result of the actions of those living in it.

People are taught to fear, worry and the principles of it’s better not to know something than it is to know. Necessarily people need to be educated on what they are fearing and how to combat that fear with a strategy to overcome it.

It’s to my understanding that people go back to the same environment seeking quote on quote healing is due to the lack of feeling devalued. They don’t have any self worth, no value. When you teach people to fear their environment they become dependent on a thing that can not exist without a group of individuals making up that small of larger population.

The way I see it an environment is kin to a church building. A church is just a building with words on it advertising the name of a particular religion that the people adhere to. But how can the building be utilized for the reasons that it was created for? The people coming together fulfilling their obligations to those religious practices and idiologies that they adhere to. Then the building will become true in nature, but first the people must manifest true in their nature.

Time and time again people seek refuge in the same environment that they were originally hurt in is due to not just being taught their value and worth. But some of the blame had to be placed on that person as well. Unless you are a defenseless child. You can’t be held captive if you yourself don’t agree to the captivity.

What do I mean by that? A lot of times people go back to the same environment to heal is because they love it. They have become convinced that the very same environment that have hurt them loves them. They claim that it has been there for them when no one else has. It has nurtured them and raised them. They will always be and forever loyal.

Kind of reminds me of a gang boy standing his ass on the corner will fully and proudly to die for a block that didn’t raise him nor love him. But it has actually raised him, groomed him for his destruction.

All this shows me is that people hurt is so deep rooted that they have become numb to the idea that they are prostitute and the territory that they originate from is the pimp. Some people not going to like that I said that oh well. It’s the truth. If you understand the concept a pimp is a master over his prostitutes. They are his possession. His property. He has dominion over them. Many of our environments had the same influence over us as a pimp does over his. We get dispatched out to many parts of the world and just act out how we were raised and taught to be. Not really having a sense of awareness. Decernment that most of the none sense that we were subjected to can get us killed or landed in jail. Most of the stuff that we were taught in our environment is deception. It’s false. It needs for us to believe it so we can fulfill a purpose or a plan that it has for us. And the plan and purposes is just to pull us further and further away from the most high. This is just so we can’t use everything that the most high had equipped us with. To keep us in the dark. Our environment act as a handler of ours. And I say handler because that’s where most of us was programmed ever since a youth.

However we don’t need a environment filled with Babylonian luciferian liberal teachings to mold us. Where are the parents and the elders that will reach out and train up a child in the way that he shall go so that when he gets older he will not depart from it. That’s what we need. It’s a damn shame that we run back to these environments seeking healing and refuge when the most high let’s you know that he is your refuge. You can come to him for his yoke is easy. These toxic ass environments have replaced the order and authority that we are all desperately lacking in our life.

Stop running to a place seeking to be restored. If you got hurt there once whose to say that you won’t get hurt there again. There’s no good that will come from an environment that sole purpose is to not be apart of the solution but the fucking problem.

You’re better than that, you got the power to change and transcend all the hurt, pain, deception and foolishness. Get your ass up and get it done.

But anyway y’all stay blessed

Wassup world. I am Keyshaun Jamel Collins and what can I say about myself. First thing is that I never thought that I would be sharing my life, thoughts, experiences, ideas, and dreams aka my business with the world. I’m simply an introverted guy who views the world differently but prefers to keep to myself. I graduated from college nine months ago with my Bachelors of Science degree in psychology. That’s a big accomplishment for me. Yet, that’s not about me. I am a Chicago native born and raised to a black dad and mom who are still married till this day. That don’t describe me. I got a Puerto Rican and Mexican fiancée; my guy friends I had to break free from them because they were jealous. Couldn’t understand how I had the tools to get that one girl, while they stepped up to the plate swung and missed. That’s not about me. Went outside day after day practicing on what started as a dream in hopes of one day becoming a reality. I did not have the mental strength to let this curricular activity go, so I could realize that this was meant to be metaphor to teach me life and prepare me for my true gift. Now that’s me. I am a firm believer in to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48). My goal is to give back, it is very easy to receive so much in life, but the real reward is to give back that knowledge so you can help the next fellow man under you struggling in whatever his/her situation may be. Through this website I have an opportunity to inspire, encourage and motivate. Paint a picture with my words while telling a story about my struggles, hard aches and pains; also the down falls and faults that I bare witness to everyday while I interact with numerous people everyday. How am I able to achieve this, simple I know myself. I know my self worth as a man because I envision it, claim it, speak it and walk in my authority confidently because I understand it. Like my dad and mom always say “If you don’t stand for something than you’ll fall for anything. Now that’s me.

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