Life is lost without the courage to go out from the comfort zone. Life is lost in secret jealousy and by criticizing those who dared, instead of enjoying their success and following their example. Life is lost by hanging on partners. Life is lost by sharing gossip and taking behind someones back, rather than speaking inspirational and supportive words, or silence. Life is lost by believing that in order for us to be happy, we must first change our partner. Life is lost in the search for justifications and diagnoses in others and without the thought that all our experiences are beginning and ending in us.